The relationship between the ego narcissist, in this case Joseph and the ego masochist, which was my past Identity.
The narcissist is in self serving, so it does not give love, it only takes love.
The masochist is in denial of love, so it does not receive love, it only gives love.
One beams its light, the other takes.
It becomes the sucking the light out of the body, one sided kind of relationship.
This is a dance of disruption or as we call it in spiritual practice, Awakening.
The person who acts as an ego narcissist has to first expose as deprogram its Untruths, to remain as the Self.
Which is infinite love, and it can only occur in the space of presence, and not as an Identity.
As its the identity, who has personalities, habits as conditions, as the Self is Pure Emptiness.
The person who acts as an ego masochist has to also expose as deprogram its Untruths, to remain as the Self.
Which is also endless love, yet, this can also only occur through Being, and not as an Identity.
As the only way Transcendence can happen is by accepting a darkness that needs to be lit up one can say, and It can only be lit up by your True Essence, which is Presence, itself.
One has to go within, one has to close one eyes, one has to use its time to discover the Timelessness.
As the only Consistent Truth is that one is Presence, which is also Consciousness, and even beyond as the Absolute Self, and never a person, personality, nor identity.
Only in the space of presence, will ones untruths effortlessly burn out.
Thus, One Transcends Ego Mind into Presence.
As so only Truth remains.